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4 Reasons why It’s so hard to express your emotions to family

Rebeka Ratry
4 min readMay 1, 2021

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Emotions called a strong feeling deriving from one’s circumstances. In some theories, cognition is an important aspect of emotion. Emotions are created by our brain. Sometimes our mind got dread by the memory of happiness, sadness, surprise and also expectations. Intermittently, we all want to express the emotions which has been dumped in our retention for so long time.

The time of infancy, children’s get all they want from family but in someone’s life it doesn’t even happen. In puberty time, girls or boys wants or needs are curtailed by most of the family. In this genre, girls or boys has a vivid imagination which occurs them to consolidate the grief, happiness and expectations. Some are started to imagine all this as real which may impaired their emotions.

Contentions of being introverted

  1. Not all are same in this universe, some are talkative and some are painfully shy. Whom are painfully shy, they don’t even ever like to express anything,so that they can’t come out from the grief or happiness. And those emotions built up on their mind which may occur a bad impression in their brain development stage.
  2. Most of us, well-equipped the emotions to express in thought of not getting neglected by family. But mere of them aren’t having the same thoughts. Because of expressing emotions we all need a pliant family but not everyone hasn’t that identical norm. In this generation, parents live in 90’s life and they expect their children’s as like the same. Which can’t even possible. In this phrase, children’s get detached from their parents and afraid of expressing emotions to them.
  3. To error is human. So, we all aren’t perfect. We all rehash oversights. But sometimes we unintentionally or intentionally did something very wrong that we started to feel ashamed and afflicted in our mind of expressing to family. Most of cases, parents don’t accept the mistakes and give intolerable punishment, so that children’s don’t ever get free to their parents. It takes them so far from their family and some of them interfere with worsened attachment issues, which brings inappropriate state of affairs and hamper their childhood with inimitable benefits.
  4. In some countries, harassments and sexual assaults are impacting bad…

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Rebeka Ratry
Rebeka Ratry

Written by Rebeka Ratry

Diligent student of Civil & Environment Engineering who also converse over Mental Health, Social Cognition & Psychology

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